Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Romance Cover Model - Jason Baca

Jason Aaron Baca is a romance novel model from California. We asked Jason some honest questions about what he does to maintain a nice body and good looking face in order to help you improve your body. We also got up close and personal about his experiences as an actor & romance novel model.

Magazine – My word, Jason, you are in amazing shape. How in the world did you get such a good body?
Jason – Well it is in my nature to workout. I played baseball all through high school and college so I have always had that in me to want to do some form of exercise.
Magazine – Those shoulders have excellent definition. How can our readers get those?
Jason – Just hit them hard! You have to keep at them just like the rest of your body parts. I was lucky to have shoulders that grew easy. Whereas my legs took a lot more work.
Magazine – What does your workout look like? Take us through a one day scenario from morning to night.
Jason – Well in the morning I get up at 6am and shower. I drink one cup of 1% chocolate milk which has protein, carbohydrates & a little sugar to get me going. I get to the gym and workout whatever body part I have scheduled that day. I don’t let up on that particular body part until one hour of being in the gym.
   As for the evening, I will do something aerobic for 10-15 minutes and follow that up with some more abdominal crunches. I can do 500 now.
Magazine – So then your workout in the morning is for 1 hour non-stop?
Jason – Well kind of. I take a 1 minute rest in between sets. I avoid the talkers in my gym too as they can start visiting with you for 5-10 minutes and screw up your whole workout. I always want to tell these guys that I didn’t wake at 6am just to come in here and talk to you.
Magazine – Do you get a lot of people coming up to you asking questions on how to exercise?
Jason – Sure, sometimes. I consider this a compliment in a way. It tells me that this person has enough confidence in the way I look to come ask me for advice. It means he wants to know my secret. I’ll keep it quick usually and just point out a couple things which won’t take me more then 30 seconds to explain. Then I send them on their way since I need to get back to my thing too.
Magazine – When you work out that particular muscle, do you do any other body parts at all?
Jason – Yes, I also do my abs, calves, & forearms. All 3 of those muscles need to get exercised regularly with everything else because we use those muscles in our daily activities. They require a lot more demand then other parts.
Magazine – Do you put a lot of time into your stomach workouts or are you the 5 minute ab guy?
Jason – Those advertisements sure make things seem simple. They say things like “All you have to do is 30 seconds of this abdominal crunch and you’ll have perfect abs. If those machines were that simple then John Goodman would be sporting rock hard abs. If you want good abs, you have to do 2 things, #1 you need to eat clean,#2 you need to hit your abs hard and from every direction! If you do the exact same ab exercise day in and day out you’ll have good upper abs or lower ones but you won’t have it all. People forget to do side crunches or oblique exercises which really show off the midsection well.
Magazine – How has working out helped with your modeling career?
Jason – It has helped me in so many ways I wouldn’t know where to begin. I need to workout now because of my passion for fitness modeling. In my earlier days it really opened a lot of doors for me. I’d come walk into a go see or audition and I’d see casting agents trying to decide which model to choose then they’d ask us to take off our shirts. That’s when I’d make sure to give them the WOW factor.
Magazine – Have you been modeling a long time?
Jason – Yes, I have been modeling now for 14 years. But I’ve only been doing the romance novels for a little over a year.
Magazine – Have you been exercising since you began modeling?
Jason – Yes I actually started lifting weights around age 20. My buddy from high school got me into it. He had a gym at his house. He was very serious about working out and in high school he was considered really strong for his size. He basically taught me what body parts went together, how many sets to do, reps, etc.  So I started then and never stopped lifting on up.
Magazine – Have you always used good discipline in your workouts?
Jason – Yes actually. I’ve always walked into a gym and gave it my best for that day. I know that by pushing yourself a little each day will have a positive effect on the body. The lazier, the sloppier the body gets. It’s that simple.
Magazine – What motivates you to work out or what was it that got you going?
Jason – It wasn’t enough for someone to say “Hey you look like a slob, why don’t you workout or something?” No I actually saw photos of people that inspired me. People that had bodies that I wanted to have some day. I’d always make sure to choose a role model that was out of my league that way anytime I started feeling good or like I’d accomplished the body I wanted, I’d look at the guys photo and say I have much work to do.
Magazine – Do you miss your baseball days?
Jason – Yes I do, I look back and wish I was a more mature player then I was back then. I was talented but felt that I didn’t need any help from others. I had a hard time listening to my college coach when he was only trying to help. Sometimes you learn from your mistakes when it’s far too late.
Magazine - Was part of your plan to become a professional baseball player?
Jason – Yes that was the plan. I had it all figured out. But those hopes and dreams fell fast when I was in college.
Magazine – What did this teach you?
Jason – It taught me to be more disciplined, to not just give up on something when you screw up. Hey you are going to fail at something’s but it’s how you handle that and redeem yourself is what really matters.
Magazine – Now we’ve seen quite a few of your Romance Book Covers but there is little written about you as a person.
Jason – Well I’m a down to earth guy that enjoys the simple things in life.
Magazine – We’d love to know how you were discovered to be a model. Can you please share that with us?
Jason – Sure, back in 1997 I was a double in the movie, I Know What You Did Last Summer. The photographer that does the photos for their DVD/VHS cover asked if he could take some photos of me for practice purposes. Funny thing is when he was taking these shots the main actors were all looking at me like “Hey who’s this guy?” Haha.. Anyway, this turned out to be my first real big deal. It went fast from there though.
Magazine – What was it like working around Ryan Phillippe, Freddie Prinze Jr., Sarah Michelle Gellar and Jennifer Love Hewitt? Did you interact a lot with them?
Jason – It was a lot of fun. Out of all them I got along most with Phillippe. He is around the same age as me and we both had baseball backgrounds. At the time, he was a chain smoker whereas I was a chewing tobacco chain dipper. We kept trying to convince each other to have our source of nicotine. He’s a quiet reserved person which is how I kind of am too. He kept telling me to go over and have the photographer take a photo of me with a big chew in my mouth. Boy am I sure glad I quit that disgusting habit!
Magazine – Did that photographer on location for I Know What You Did Last Summer use your photos for anything?
Jason – Not that I’m aware of but I got to have the photos for my portfolio and to this day, I get a lot of people complimenting those same ones. He was using a camera that cost hundreds of thousands of dollars so any photo it takes will look impressive though.
Magazine – That is great, so you still have photos floating around from 1997?
Jason – Yes, they are out there in internet land somewhere.
Magazine – Now being a model takes a lot of work, you need to be in good shape and have a good looking face to go with it. Is a lot of it all about genetics and who you know?
Jason – Sure some of it you have to have the potential at least. But if you want to actually unlock your body’s potential then you have to go the extra mile. I’ve always been one to shoot for goals that required a degree of difficulty that way no one can just say I had it coming to me all along. I want them to see that I earned it on my own and that someone or some family member didn’t just hand it to me on a silver platter.
Magazine – You have quite the creative imagination! I’ve seen some other interviews of you in the past and you get very candid in your responses.
Jason – Yes, I give all of this my 100%. How boring is it to read an interview from somebody and they give you the minimum response to everything. “Yes that’s right” or “Yes, I like to ski” Whenever I read these articles by other people I always think to myself, “Do you really want society learning about you in this way? Do you want everyone to imagine you as a person that just speaks when they are spoken to?” I’m like, BE CREATIVE! Use your brain!
Magazine – That brings up another question, being that you are such a creative thinker, what do you think about during a photo shoot?
Jason – Well I usually clear my head beforehand then during the shoot I usually try to be the character they are striving for. So if they want me to be a pirate holding a sword for example, then I try to imagine that I’m standing on a ship preparing for battle. I ask myself, “How would this person feel knowing that an attack on his ship is moments away?
Magazine – Do you get nervous for a photo shoot?
Jason – Sure if I don’t know exactly what I’m supposed to be doing I get a little nervous. But most of the time I know the shot they are after.
Magazine – It seems like by now after all the years of getting your picture taken you are a natural at it.
Jason – Yes sometimes the photographers laugh because I will already anticipate how they want me posed next. They are always just about to say to move in a certain direction but I’m already there.
Magazine – So we’d really like to know if you stick with your diet 100% of the time.
Jason – Hahaha… No, there is a saying out there that goes “If you follow all the rules, you may miss all the fun. So to me, I need to have that moment that I look forward to. That moment that I can eat whatever I want. I have a weakness and the only cure for that weakness is a Mr.Goodbar chocolate.
Magazine – So do you eat a Mr.Goodbar all the time?
Jason – No, but it’s on my mind as something I will be having in the near future. If I don’t have it in my mind as something I can have as a reward when all of this is through, then I start feeling down. When I’m on a serious diet for a long time, I have dreams about how I’ll go about eating a Mr.Goodbar. It can get difficult the days turn to weeks and the weeks turn into months of this discipline and it can really play on the mind.
Magazine – So then how often do you come off your diet?
Jason – When I don’t have a shoot booked then I eat some carbs and fat within moderation. I don’t get carried away though. Last time I binged for an entire week and gained 13 lbs. during that stretch. My face got puffy, my abs disappeared and I felt like all those grueling mornings I spent in the gym were all wasted in a short period of time.
What is your regular diet when you don’t have a shoot?
Jason – I have 1 day per week where I eat what I want as long as it’s not too much. On that day I try to eat a few of the foods that I’d been craving all week. Then I go right back to eating clean the other 6 days. This process works well with me because I don’t deprive myself completely. 
Magazine – Well, Jason, this has been a lot of fun interviewing you for our magazine. Is there any advice you can give those that want a body like yours?
Jason – Yes, you just need to keep working hard. If you are a beginner out there, just make sure you do something everyday toward reaching your goal. Lift weights and eat foods that will get you closer to that goal, not farther. It’s never easy reaching goals. That’s what makes them so rewarding when you get to them.

Monday, May 7, 2012

What I Want for My Birthday

by Emily Cale


Shhhh…Don't tell anyone, but this is one of the most magical eight days of the year. Why? Because between from May 1st to May 8th my husband is older than me. I get to make jokes about how he is robbing the cradle and how he is SO OLD. The rest of the year, I have to live with the fact that I am exactly the same age. Not a lot of fun.

Since I'm going to be getting a year older in a couple days, I thought I'd make some suggestions for any of you who might be thinking of buying me something.

A pool boy would probably be my first choice. I don't actually own a pool, but if that's a problem, I could buy one of those little inflatable ones designed for children and sit by it in my backyard. Really, I just want a hot guy to walk around half naked, bring me drinks, and rub sunscreen on my back. Is that too much to ask?

If you can't manage one of those, I'd settle for a nice man to take care of some of the household chores. I've got laundry, dishes, and dusting all piling up and it would be helpful if someone could take over those tasks. It'd be even better if he was say six feet tall with a strong chin, nice abs, and a perfectly round butt.

I see some of you are rolling your eyes. You mean you aren't getting me something for my birthday? How about I get one of you something instead. Sexy hockey players? You got it. I'll give one commenter a copy of my newest release, Goalie Interference, a 1 Night Stand story that I co-wrote with my friend Angela S. Stone.

Goalie Interference

Hockey goalie Tarah 'TJ' Elliot is too busy stopping pucks to go looking for love. When her friend Natalie sets her up through Madame Eve's 1 Night Stand service, she grudgingly agrees to go. Her ultimate fantasy comes true when Scott Alarid, one of the top scorers in the league, shows up at her hotel room. Hockey player TJ can't possibly spend a night with him, but Tarah certainly can.
Scott's tired of dealing with women who only like him for his all-star status. After his teammates arrange a date for him using the 1NS website, he's delighted to find a woman who doesn't know a thing about the sport. But, will the truth force them to put their relationship on ice?

You can find Emily Cale online on her website or talking on Twitter

Sunday, May 6, 2012

Life is Hard



by Alexa Bourne
Life is hard. I’ve been on the go doing everything I can to promote my 1st Decadent book, Her Highland Champion, for the last couple of months. Plus, for the last 2 weeks I’ve been working on various activities dealing with my 2nd Decadent book, Fractured Paradise, which will be available sometime later this year. As any author knows, our job is SOOOO much more than just crafting spectacular stories.

Well, this weekend I decided to take a break. I’m not writing, and the only promoting I’m doing is commenting on blog posts. Instead, I’ve decided to give my muse, Caitlin, a treat. Yes, I’ve named my muse because she’s so very important to my writing. I figured she deserved some inspiration so she’ll be ready for the next round of writing responsibilities.

So what am I doing? Of course I’m reading. Nothing helps Caitlin’s creativity like reading. But I also made some other plans, for Caitlin AND me.

Friday, I spent the evening discussing writing for an epublisher with some local writer friends. Because writing for an epublisher is different than writing for a traditional print publisher, we decided to compare notes. We’ve dubbed ourselves the Digital Darlings. It was, of course, a GREAT time!

Yesterday, I put on my T-shirt for the England National Soccer team and watched my 2 favorite teams play against each other in the FA Cup Final. It was gut-wrenching, of course, but I indulged in a pint or two to help calm my nerves.

And today, I’m going to the movies to see The Avengers because, well, I LOVE Chris Hemsworth as Thor.  

Yes, Caitlin will be ready to work on revisions for Fractured Paradise and revisions for Honor Guard book #3 that I hope to submit by the end of this month. I mean, come on. After a weekend of hanging with writers and watching all these hot men, how can she NOT be ready to get back to work? I know I am! 

Fractured Paradise Blurb:
A Decadent Honor Guard story….

Heather Winchester leads a charming life. With good friends, a beautiful flat in one of the most amazing cities in the world, and a promising future once she finishes her Ph.D, she is finally pursuing her own dreams instead of catering to everyone else’s…except she doesn’t remember any of it.

Malcolm Fraser has returned to his Highland village to forget his failings as a professional bodyguard. Believing he could just lose himself in the mundane activities of running his bed & breakfast, he finds a woman’s lifeless body by the loch instead….

Captivated by Heather as she regains her memory, Malcolm is thrown into the line of duty. As danger comes knocking on their door, will he be strong enough to love her and keep her safe?





Saturday, May 5, 2012

Meet Roger Ware


by Jenna Jaxon

May is always a wonderful month:  summer is upon us, school (for me at least) is out, the weather turns just warm enough. And this year, May is even more special because my erotic contemporary 1Night Stand novella, Almost Perfect, is Decadent Publishing's Read For A Cure book for the month of May.  

So I thought I’d introduce you to the somewhat quiet hero of AlmostPerfect, Roger Ware.  Roger’s going to have to do some talking today, because Pam’s not here.  Hello, Roger.  Please come in and introduce yourself to everyone.

Thank you, Jenna.  I think. *He smiles a little hesitantly*  Well, like Jenna said, I’m Roger Ware.  owner and CEO of softWares, a computer software development company based in California.  I started working on developing apps for several different devices, struggled for a couple of years, but last year something clicked and the company took off.  I’ve been working with computers since forever--Pam calls me a techno geek. *chuckles*  She’s right.  I’d rather sit in front of a computer than do just about anything else.

Which lead to major problems between me and Pam.  I stayed late at the office, she stayed home alone.  * eyes narrow* At least she said she was alone.  I was never quite convinced of that, especially just before…before the break-up.  Too much of what she said didn’t make sense…but that’s all in the past.

And you don’t want to hear about that business, anyway.  What else?  Oh, I do have some other hobbies.  I like going to movies.  Which is how Pam and I met.  I like art films, myself.  Like Memento and The World’s Fastest IndianBlue Valentine. *His eyes flicker and sadden* That one hit close to home.  But generally things off the beaten path.  Pam liked the romantic comedies, which are okay if there’ve got some action-adventure to them.

*Sighs* Everything seems to lead back to Pam.  Like I didn’t have a life without her.  I did have a life before Ms. Kimball. It was just, well…quiet.  She was the one who turned it upside down with her crazy antics.  I guess opposites do attract. 

*Smiles broadly* But now I’m ready to make a fresh start and hopefully have a little action-adventure of my own.  I found this great dating service, called 1Night Stand that promises to fulfill my every fantasy--a romantic dinner on a deserted island in the Caribbean, soft breezes, waves lapping on the sand, and hot sex on the beach with my perfect woman.  *grins devilishly*  I’ve been planning this for a while.  Been working out at the gym.  Working at other things too. *winks*  A hot night filled with passion.  Guaranteed.

Well, thanks for letting me share some things about me with you.  I’ve got to get back to the computer.  I’m working on a new app that I think you will absolutely enjoy!  It’s called Fantasy Island and I want to give you that feeling of sand between your toes when you play.  I’ll probably finish it up after my 1Night Stand. *grins*  An X-rated app, maybe?

Thank you, Roger for leaving that image with us.  *smiles*

Thank you all for stopping by the blog today. Hope you enjoyed the little meet and greet with Roger.  To find out how his 1Night Stand went, why not check out Almost Perfect? 

Remember, it’s the Read For A Cure book for May. All publisher proceeds from sales of the book from any vendor during the month will go to benefit Relay for Life. And a portion of my proceeds will be donated as well.  That means whoever purchases the book during the month of May is making a generous contribution to cancer research.   Please Read For A Cure and help close the book on cancer.

 Blurb for Almost Perfect:
    
 Pamela Kimball’s birthday present, a 1Night Stand adventure, promises to jump-start her life, put a new man in her bed, and help her forget her past.  Unfortunately, movie-buff Pam’s Pirates of the Caribbean fantasy takes an alarming wrong turn when she’s abandoned on a not quite deserted island—with ex-husband Roger Ware. 

Forced by hunger to accept Roger’s offer of dinner,  Pam realizes the geek she married has transformed into one of the most charming, sexiest men she’s ever met. His newfound confidence—and hot body—re-kindle old fires.  A simple kiss leads Roger to challenges her to discover how much his lovemaking skills have improved, leaving Pam torn between self-preservation and burning desire. 

With time running out before they’re rescued, Pam must decide if her heart can survive the consequences of becoming Roger’s “almost” perfect 1Night Stand.

Excerpt for Almost Perfect:

She inched into the lapping surf, searching for movement. Reflection off the water made this task harder than expected. Wasn’t the Caribbean supposed to be teeming with fish?  Now that’s something she’d had a lot of instruction in. Almost every marooned-on-an-island movie had a scene where the heroine learned to catch fish. Six Days, Father Goose, Blue Lagoon. All you needed was your hands and patience. She could do this.
Pam waded out further then stopped just before the water hit her now dry shorts. “Not gonna to have a damp crotch all night.” The words reminded her of exactly what she had hoped for tonight. “But not from wet shorts!” She headed back to shore to remove and drape them next to her shirt. The bandeau was a different story. Still damp, even after several hours, and uncomfortable. Might dry better if not next to her skin anyway. “Screw it!  Live dangerously.”
Standing as good as naked on the deserted beach, Pam smiled as the warm breeze caressed her bare body. The sense of being slightly naughty added to her delight in the sensual feel of the air as it dried her breasts. Her nipples peaked as the wind cooled them. She strutted down to the water’s edge to sink her toes in the sand, the salty tang in the air adding to the perfect moment.
“If you’re skinny dipping, you forgot to remove one very important piece of clothing.”
Pam whirled around. Roger stood on the beach behind her, a green bottle of Perrier in one hand. His gaze played up and down her naked torso and his salacious grin widened. “Mind if I join you?”

Bio:
Jenna Jaxon is a multi-published author of historical  and contemporary romance who has been reading and writing historical romance since she was a teenager.  A romantic herself, Jenna has always loved a dark side to the genre, a twist, suspense, a surprise.  She tries to incorporate all of these elements into her own writing.
Jenna lives in Virginia with her family and a small menagerie of pets.  When not reading or writing, she indulges her passion for the theatre, working with local theatres as a director.  She often feels she is directing her characters on their own private stage. 
She has equated her writing to an addiction to chocolate because once she starts she just can’t stop.


Friday, May 4, 2012

The Only ‘F’ at Decadent


by Fierce Dolan

It’s a big responsibility, being the only author listed under ‘F’ on Decadent Publishing’s Author List.  This is an honor I don’t take it lightly, which is ironic given that it’s a chosen name. 

I guess it’s no surprise that ‘Fierce’ is a pen name.  It has a rockstar quality that I quite like, although that wasn’t why I chose it.  Well-published in nonfiction, I had a surplus of fiction that needed to find a home.  In 2009 I decided to publish under a different name, one free of biogender and orientation, since I like to write stories in that blurry margin. Finally I could create a persona from the ground up, make it whatever I wanted. 

So of course I drew a total blank.

I asked the Multiverse to tell me the name that best spoke the qualities I needed in my life at the time, and it came just like thatsurname and all.  Amateur symbologist and etymologist that I am went straight to my resources to decode its secret message.

The earliest appearance of ‘fierce’ in English was around the 13th century, when it meant ‘noble’ or ‘proud.’  By the 16th century it was conscripted by a similar French word and its meaning changed to ‘wild.’  ‘Dolan’ originates from Irish, and translates to ‘dark rebellion.’  So the cosmos said I was: Wild Dark Rebellion.

I could write wild, I figured.  I could buck the system and inspire vigilante revolt.  My artful sleight of scrawl could generate spell-binding tension, soul-sucking plots threateninga plunge into the chaotic void.  But I knew my identity retread was about more than permission to pen uncharted paradigms. 

In that very personal memo was the permission to be more myself, and in opening up to learn who that was, to embrace myself as a writer, fully.

No small task, that.

Can I live freely enough to be thoroughly lucid in my craft? Can I allow myself to put forward my own raw nature?Maybe.  I’ll give it my best shot, at least until some other Fs get here.

Better yet, can I be a rockstar?



On Gigolo Seduction
Long in passion’s service, confident Asif enjoys his life as a thirty-something escort, bringing romance into the lives of metropolitan socialite cougars. Gifted at seducing wealthy white MILFs and bringing them endless pleasure, the arrogant Persian eschews investing in a personal life. A chance meeting with young artist, Cass, while on the job at a gala event, changes his perspective on women forever, and unleashes desires Asif never knew he had.

From Gigolo Seduction
“Are your works always so intricate?”
She shakes her head, again scanning the tower, though my eyes stay on her. “Frescoes are always detailed and hard work, but this is way above and beyond. Layering in kinetic elements to give moving light and dimensional depth is my dream project come true. Most of my projects are just frescoes.”
Just frescoes.” I laugh. “They’re noble and valiant relics in the art world.”
“They’re actually in high demand.” Her tone is matter-of-fact. “Though few people can afford them.”
“Well, you’ve outdone yourself here,” I affirm. Her smile is sincere, her pride evident, elegant, enchanting.
“It’s taken quite a long time to come together, and I’ve left the plasterer more than a little frustrated on several occasions.”
“I can’t imagine him staying angry for long….”
“They’ve given me deep creative license over the project, so that’s saved my ass a couple of times. It’s kind of mind-blowing to work on something so limitlessly funded.”
Our eyes lock for mere seconds and the silence is disturbing. “I was just going for a bite to eat. Would you care to join me?”
Cass nods. “I’d like to, but I need to finish this section. This medium doesn’t wait well.”
She’s genuinely interested and I want her to be. I want her to be as affected as I am. Before I can prod further she asks, “Maybe another time?”
Reluctantly, I follow her to the elevator. She opens it with a pass card attached to a cord coiled on the drawstring of her pants. My eyes linger on the brilliant green gem in her navel.
“What’s your name?”
“Asif,” I reply without hesitating. The sound is bare, like a secret revealed, though I don’t understand why. I always use my real name.
“Another time, Asif.”
The doors slide closed, and I agree.

Enjoy Gigolo Seduction along with the Reader’s Guide

Bio
MezzoFiction author, Fierce is imagination shapeshifted as a scribe taunting blank pages and carpal tunnel, neither of which are much use for deadlines. Close allies are impeccable timing and a trusty masseuse. Being a switch I/ENFP doesn't hurt. For kicks Fierce has other personas across several genres, tends to fill in “Other” on surveys without explaining, and chooses the finality of the Japanese Tamagotchi.
In summary: Fierce write all kind of dirty things that you shouldn’t read, ever
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Thursday, May 3, 2012

Reviews…food for thought…


by Kacey Hammell

Normally I don’t like to get on soapboxes and preach to anyone about anything. Everyone has opinions, the rights to their thoughts and beliefs. But a couple weeks ago, I had a few author friends contact me to read reviews they’d received and wanted my opinion.
Backing up a bit, I was a reviewer for three online romance review sites for about five years, which led me to working with/for publishers and brought me to writing. I’m not an expert, would never claim to be, but I think there’s a right way and a wrong way for reviewers and authors to handle reviews.

I do no respect a reviewer that doesn’t offer substantiated reasons for a low rating (for those that use cars, tongues, running shoes, umbrellas or popsicles – making sh*t up here so don’t go looking for any review sites that use these symbols for ratings LOL – or at least none I know of). Anyway, reviewers that praise a story in the written text but then give a story a two or three rating, doesn’t jive. If there’s positives tell me some of those, same with the negatives. And do it in a respectful, considerate way.

Authors reactions – unless a reviewer is giving away the biggest spoilers of your book or tearing it to shreds with demeaning wording or cutting you up as an author – take it in stride. Let the sting hurt, but then move on. Reviews are like opinions and everyone has them. Review sites / reviewers shouldn’t be publishing horrendous or demeaning reviews, at least any that are considered professional, and hopefully they’ll look for some of the positives in any story.

And to lambast a reviewer/site publicly doesn’t look good, nor is it professional. Which brings me back to the author pals who wrote me a few weeks ago to look at the reviews…Their first reaction was to scream and holler, have the reviews taken down, but while the reviews weren’t worded well and a couple had spoilers galore in it, it is just something they had to deal with.  I did suggest contacting the review coordinator of the site and request for some of the spoilers to be omitted – which they were which was nice – but for the content of the review itself, something to live with.
Not every reader/reviewer is going to love your work. It’s a shame because every one of my stories rocks!!! LOL Okay, to me they do but I do appreciate the reviewer feedback. As someone who has reviewed before, I always tried to word any negatives about a story so that the author would work on that area in the next book (especially if a series), so I look at reviews I receive in that light now. Yes, there have been times where any negatives are not explained, but I take the reviews as they come.

So read your reviews, if you wish, take it in stride but don’t react if it’s something negative. ALWAYS thank the reviewer/review site and move on. Keep it professional, to the point, and look back on the reviews occasionally and see what feedback you can use. It takes too much energy to bemoan negativity around you. Put some of that energy into your WIP. Works every time! *g* 

Be true to your characters, stories, and yourself! In doing that, you’ve already succeeded!

Few things I have printed and framed over my desk…and keep me sane…

"Seek the lofty by reading, hearing and seeing great work at some moment every day." ~ Thornton Wilder

"I don’t know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody." ~ Bill Cosby

“Courage is being scared to death but saddling up anyway” ~ John Wayne
  
QUESTION: What are your thoughts on reviews?


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Wednesday, May 2, 2012

What's the Difference?


by D.L. Jackson

Recently I was gathered together with a group of women while we sent the guys over to another house to watch MMA title fights. Now, being a black belt recommend in mixed martial arts, I wanted to go, but it was a no chicks, guy thing, and I wasn’t allowed. So, I hung with the girls, watched movies and chatted.
One of the ladies I met talked about a reading club she belongs to. I pulled out my phone, brought up my website and handed it to her. I said, “I’m an author. What are you reading?” She leans in and whispers, “erotica.” And then she blushes.
Booyah! You’re talking my language. “I write erotic romance and erotica.”
Then she asks what’s the difference. Ah, I say. You just might be surprised. There’s a very thin line, and often readers are reading erotic romance and don’t know it.
Now this isn’t the first time I’ve had someone react like erotic romance is the dirty little secret of the publishing world. I’ve had a woman in Barnes and Noble reply to my question, “where is the erotic?” by saying, “the slut books?” Usually the first reaction I get when someone finds out I’m an author is they ask what it is I write. When I tell them, they often blink and say, “oh, well I like so-and-so”, and spout out the name of some well known author they are reading, thinking it sounds “safe”, something a good girl would read. Nothing they wouldn’t be caught dead buying in the bookstore.
Uh, huh.
The next reaction I usually get, because ninety percent of the time what they are reading is erotic romance, goes something like this, “but they are a New York Times best seller. It’s romance.”
And so is erotic romance. It is romance. So what’s the difference? What makes romance erotic, or not. I think the first thing that makes it erotic is that the language is explicit. We call the body parts what they are, and we are not afraid to talk a little dirty. Seen any of that in the book you picked up in the supermarket lately? Yes? I’m not surprised.
The second thing that makes it erotic romance, is that the sex is an important part of the story.  The tension, the building desires and lust all lead to a big bang. Or multiple bangs. Sound familiar?
Ah. So, you’ve been reading erotic romance and you didn’t know it. Now there are definitely different degrees of heat you will find in romance and not all is erotic in nature, but the current trend is sexier, hotter books, with snarky heroines who often know what they want and go after it. They experiment and yes, sometimes talk dirty.
So, here are the different kinds of romance.
Sweet romance: Close the door. Sometimes the hero and heroine never consummate that relationship, and if they do, it will most likely not happen before they’re married. You will often see this in YA (young adult) books and Christian Romance. Happy ever afters are a must.
Romance: Hero and heroine are headed to bed somewhere in the story. Sometimes they’re married when they consummate, sometimes not. When they roll around in the sheets, the big scene doesn’t usually happen until around page 300 or so (don’t ask me why, but that’s usually where I see it). When it does happen, sometimes the author shuts the door, sometimes you see a little of what they are doing, but the scenes are not explicit, nor is the language. Happy ever afters are a must.
Erotic romance: This is the most common romance out there. And though you don’t think you’ve read it, you very well might have. Now erotic romance can have different degrees of heat, leaning toward romance, or the other way, erotica. You know the couple is going to get it on, and a lot of the time, it happens in the first chapter. You feel sexual tension from page one and throughout the story. Multiple sex scenes with descriptive sex, but not necessarily in every chapter. The sex isn’t the plot, but it is important to the story, and if it happens, it happens for a reason. The story could be paranormal, science fiction, contemporary, and about any sub-genre you can think of. A lot of the time there is a hero and a heroine, but it’s not exclusive. There may be ménage, male on male, female on female. Because this is romance and not erotica, once the hero(es) and heroine(s) get together, they are usually monogamous, even if they are a threesome. Happy ever afters, or at least happy for nows, are a must.
Erotica: The plot is the sex, but it often follows a storyline. Again, it can be any sub-genre you can think of. But the thing to remember is that the story is about the couple, or couples, or multiples coming together sexually. Almost every chapter will have hot, descriptive sex. The heroine or hero may have sex with others, but I find once they get together, they tend toward monogamy (in most the erotica I’ve read). Just about anything goes (except the usual no-no’s). Voyeurism, bondage, multiples. You will always see explicit sex, and graphic language. The plot is often based on sexual fantasies, i.e., seducing the boss, nailing the mailman, being the only man in an all female orgy. It is not Porn. Porn does not have a plot. Happy for now is usually a must, but not required.
Porn: Graphic detailed sex that spontaneously happens, and usually has no storyline. The sex is there for the purpose of titillation. The hero and heroine are there for one reason—to f*%k. It consists of graphic sex scenes, and language. Chicky-bah-wah. The plumber comes in, nails the bored housewife while the husband watches, story over.

So, up for some erotic romance? Go ahead, give it a try. You might be surprised you’ve already been reading it. Tell me what your favorite erotic romances are. What sub-genre do you like most?

I’m going to give away a copy of Seducing Liberty, a Decadent 1Night Stand, and yes, it’s erotic romance. All you have to do to get in on a chance to win, is leave a comment.